You can do this by asking her questions about herself during your conversations and also by sharing with her your likes and dislikes. Figure out areas of common interest and chat her up about them. Recognize that she may give short answers and not open up at first. However, if you give her time and are persistent, she will probably warm up to and even express excitement about talking to you about her interests.
It was so fun to see all the characters again. What was your favorite part of the movie? This will give you an opportunity to spend more time together. Take your time. Patience is key when flirting with a shy girl. The next week, ask her a question about her day. Gradually increase the amount of communication. Increase the amount of time you spend together. Find excuses to be near her, such as sitting with her at lunch or next to her in class or working with her on a project.
If you know she goes to the gym in the morning, go at the same time as her so that you can talk, even if just to say a quick hello. You want her to see you as a regular presence in her life. Be careful not to overdo it by going wherever she goes. All you need to do to create a sense of familiarity is pick a few strategic moments every week to be near her and make your presence known. Method 2. Approach her alone. Compliment her. Even better, point out a non-physical attribute about her that you like, such as her kindness, cheerfulness, or her sense of humor.
This will build up her confidence and make her feel more secure around you. Suggest an activity you can do together. This will allow you to spend more time with her and to build up your relationship as she gets to know you more. All you want to do for now is find opportunities to allow you to get to know each other. Dating, for a shy girl, may be a concept that she needs to warm up to, and warming up includes getting to know the person she might go on a date with.
Method 3. Break the touch barrier. Lightly touch her arm, shoulder, or hand as you speak - just a second or two will start to get your message across. Touch her gently when she says something you agree with or says something funny. Keep your body language open. Face her with your entire body and lean in to listen closer if she speaks softly.
This will get her comfortable with less physical distance between the two of you. However, if she pulls away, pull away as well so as not to seem intimidating. As a shy girl too, it's very hard to flirt with a guy I'm interested in. If I'm interested, it's much more likely that I will be too embarrassed to even talk. A sign of me liking a guy is if I'm quiet when he talks to me, blush a lot.
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If a shy woman looks at you a lot, or stares but then looks away, that's usually a sign that she likes you. Shy women may also engage in other nonverbal behaviors that signal attraction, states anthropologist David Givens. For example, moving her head forward and down, and then looking at you from under her eyebrows, is known as the "forehead bow" and is a subconscious sign of attraction.
Raised shoulders, also known as the "cute response," are a sign that she may be into you, as are mirroring movements -- such as putting her hand on her chin in the same way as you.
When you see more than one of these actions at the same time, they are a strong sign of attraction. Look to see if the shy woman acts differently around you than she does with other people, says the Social Issues Research Centre.
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